Had a date this past weekend and it’s a no. At first it was meh I’ll give it another go. Upon reflection no. So he talked about himself the whole time. I did ask questions and I fed off what he was saying, but he never asked me anything. At the end he told me he was going on a trip this Thursday and asked when I was. He told me we’ll talk when you get back.
So at first I considered that the guy was just nervous – hence talking about himself. But when I was telling a friend about how it ended…something clicked. You’re going to wait 3 weeks to talk to me? Seriously? That was your graceful out I suppose, but why not just come out and say it.
Today a guy gave me his number to call him….I told him we’ve never talked I don’t feel comfortable giving a stranger my phone number. He “deared” me. Don’t ever dear a woman you don’t know. That stinks of scammer slime and that you’re just a frigging asshole. There I’ve said it….an asshole, a player, the slime between a swamp monsters toes. Got it? The beautiful gift he gave me was his name. So of course I case searched that biotch. When you have 2 pages on case search dedicated just to you – I don’t think you need to be on a dating site.